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October 04 The price of love Children you invested your life in grow up and eventually move away. Our closet friends change jobs and relocate across the country. We don't stop loving any of these people, but we ache because we can't be with them and can't remain connected to them the way we would like. We are designed for social and emotional intimacy with those around us, but our desires are polluted by our selfish inclination to make it all about us. We want to love other people, to be known and enjoyed and loved in return. Love always means risking pain, even in the best relationships, there is a haunting sense of potential loss. Love can't be bought,but it definitely carries a price, and it's called sacrifice. October 03 溝通 上星期天參加了一個教會的event,除了聚餐外還有專題演講, 主題是 - 兩性溝通 節錄以下重點希望能時時提醒自己 - 溝通是一種傳達與交換訊息的過程,與人互動並有良好的溝通是尊重對方的表現. 要使溝通達到預期的效果需要遵循的三個技巧 - 正確解讀(perce[topm check) 深度傾聽(action listening) 有效回應(effective feedback) 真正的愛就是與人有良好的溝通,能深入的去認識對方,在關係體驗中學習付出. |
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